We all know what an amazing lady looks like. But it’s not just about the looks, is it? It’s about that special something that makes you want to become part of her life in one way or another. It’s about her charisma.
We all want to be her. Not just because she seems successful and happy, but also because she attracts equally amazing people around her.
The good news is: we’re all amazing. Some women are just more charismatic than others, so they can surround themselves with cool people all the time. More good news: charisma is something you can work on. It’s possible to train yourself to make better connections. It’s time to start attracting amazing people in your life.
How many cool people do you see in one day? How many of them have you introduced yourself to?
Whether you see it or not, dozens of cool persons pass you by on a daily basis. They don’t have a radar for amazing people. They might think you’re amazing when they see you and some of them might introduce themselves to you, but you simply can’t stay passive.
The main secret to attracting amazing people is… talk to them!
We’re not talking about approaching random people on the street. That would make you seem weird. When someone really gets your attention, however, you don’t want to miss the chance. Just approach them and introduce yourself. This simple acquaintance can grow into a wonderful friendship.
Express Your Coolness
Lilica Northon, a career expert from Resumes Planet, explains how she changed her own life: “I’ve spent years of my life teaching people how to get the jobs they love. Express your coolness has always been the main advice of mine. It took me a long time to realize that you don’t express your coolness just when you want to get noticed. It becomes part of you. You convey it all the time.”
You are great! You have awesome hobbies and interests. You have a unique character, and that alone is a magnet for amazing people. You just need to express your uniqueness. Do it through your clothes, your jewelry, and your entire appearance. When you look as cool as you are, people will want to know you better.
Make People Feel Appreciated
The process of attracting amazing people is not based on meeting new ones. It’s also about attracting the ones you know and making them part of your life.
The only way to do that is by making them feel valued, and you won’t be doing it out of selfish reasons. You’ll be doing that because you do appreciate them and you want them to be aware of their value.
Stop hanging out with people who drain your vibe. Devote more of your time to those you truly like, and make them feel good about being in your company. That doesn’t require much effort when you’re doing it out of genuine intentions.
That’s the main rule of every “how to” guide. When you want to achieve a goal, you have to start by believing in yourself.
Do you like who you are?
Take your time to think about that answer. Would you like yourself more if you changed something? Maybe you’d want to be kinder, more supportive, and more knowledgeable? Whatever the vision about your best self is, work towards it.
The important thing is to love yourself under any circumstances. You’re not perfect and you never will be. That’s okay. There’s still greatness in you, and other people can benefit from it. Show them!
When we’re talking about generosity, we’re not talking about sharing your wealth with others. If you want and if you can do that, go for it. However, you can still be generous even when money is not part of the equation. You’ll give everything else you have, without holding back.
When you want to attract amazing people in your life, you need those connections to be deep. It’s not just about hanging out with the coolest people around. It’s about having them as your support system. That’s only possible when you dare to give everything.
When someone is in trouble, you have to be there for them. You need to share your life, too. If you don’t share the most important moments with these amazing people, you can’t expect for them to fully open up.
Here’s a challenge for you: if you want amazing people in your life, be amazing! Open up to the world and show your coolness. Don’t wait for someone to make the first step; be the one who initiates connections. Step by step, you’ll change your life for the better!