Does your boyfriend or brother complain about some particular habit or behavior of yours that you don’t even seem to notice? Chances are that the men in your life hate some of those things you do! And not just those men, but a lot of men in general hate some habits or behavior of some women.
Interested to know what those are? Okay let’s get down to it…
1. Maintenance costs
Most guys don’t prefer women who have really high budgets and always like to go to high-end shops just because they have a boyfriend. They think that some women go shopping or love having dinners at posh restaurants just so they get to spend someone else’s money. The ‘follow-me-to-the-salon’ visits also get too tiring for these men to handle.
2. Showing no respect for elders
They also wish their women to be respectful to their elders and parents. These guys don’t like those women who don’t know how to behave or talk with elders. They want women to show proper respect to their parents and all elders in general.
3. Indulging in gossip
‘Gossip’ – a lot of men do really cringe at this word. They can go running to the hills if women start gossiping about everything under the sun. Some women can gossip for Africa: gossip about the next door girl, the newbie in school, other men. God help them! They don’t even leave their friends and best friends out of their gossip net. This is can be a huge turn-off for your guy.
4. Whining about small things
Some women never seem to be satisfied with what they have! They always look for ways to be more ‘content’. If their friend got a new dress, they will want to have it. If they didn’t get to go to a movie, they will complain about it. Your men friends are most likely tired of listening to you!
5. Going berserk while shopping
Men generally don’t like to shop, but they adjust when they are with their women. However, when they do go shopping, women can drive them crazy by acting plain childish when they see a new top or a handbagbag. Some women tend to scream and go, “Oh my God! Just look at that!” By this, they not only get attention from everyone within a 2 feet radius, but sometimes also manage to get giggles and smug smiles. And at that moment, men wish they would be anywhere but near their girl.
6. Taking time to dress up
Yes, this is a really long standing argument that men have about women. They take time to dress up! It doesn’t matter if they have to go on a date, movie or just take a walk, some women need to be prim and proper all the time. Men don’t mind them looking neat and clean, but can’t they put a simple tee and jeans, dab a bit of perfume and come out for an evening stroll?
7. Being over-anxious about themselves
Men say that women always seem to be insecure about themselves. They aren’t happy with their looks, their hair, their body, nothing. This is simply a case of the grass looking green on the other side, men feel. Even after these women get repeated compliments from their men or anyone, they don’t seem to understand that they look great! really!
8. Giving off a bad odor
Of course, no one likes to be with a person who has a bad stench coming off him/her. Ditto for men. They don’t prefer women to be smelling of sweat or any other bad odor. It is a great turn-off.
9. Being sleazy
Men like women who have their self-respect and self-esteem intact. They hate those women who are trashy and just sleep around with men for the sake of it. Men themselves lose respect for such women.
10. Acting stupid
Men think that sometimes women just act plain stupid. Men prefer smart women who can look after themselves, are independent and don’t make themselves look like a fool in front of others.